A 14 year old is having a short lunch with others, suddenly one boy gets out a smartphone and plays a couple engaged in Intimate positions. His mouth drops wide open, hardly chewing the food. Others giggle.
He goes home going to the same website and clicks. Now he is glued to the phone. Forget the food, homework, cricket sessions or just being plain naughty. Now his education starts.
He gets ideas for the future sex positions and prospective future partners. He has to be dominant, throw the girl around, pull her hair, punch or slap her a bit. A woman is bored if she is not making noise, like in the movie, flip her on the stomach during sex and slap her butt hard. You got to have a big penis, and you have to last a long time. And there is no other way to win a girl. This is how women and men play in the porn.
And Sunny Leone is the most popular search personality in India for last five or so years. Forget Modi and Man Mohan Singh. Pornhub, Xvideos.com, Xnxx.com, Bongacams.com are among highest trafficked websites in the world. Pornhub alone has 100 million daily visitors.
Sadly, in the Indiana University survey done recently, most parents refuse to believe that their children watch porn at all, especially certain acts of sex.
Teenager of today is perhaps the most confused, unhappy teen in recent modern history. He is exposed to porn through a smartphone, and the images confuse and shock him that is enough to freeze a developing young brain. Peers cannot help him because they are as helpless. Parents and teachers are in the mood of denial. As Indiana University Research says, parents do not acknowledge that there is a problem.
Should a parent come across the situation, they would be angry and yell at children. Parents hide their own guilt and ignorance. One sensible thing for parent will be to sit with a child, talk about how sex on web is a staged drama. Purpose is to have viewers glued to their website and sell an ad. This is their business model.
We only can hope a child is mature enough to grasp what is a business model. If he understands their economics and motive of doing it, the child will be looking at that website with a brain that is molding towards critical thinking. Yelling at child will only hide the problem underground and damage him more.
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